MY LIFE,MY CHOICE
We humans are curious,so curious that nothing stops most people from peeping into others life.Explanation,explanation,explanation for everything....Here are some most common things to which we don't really owe people an answer.1. You don't owe people an explanation on your physical appearance:You may be short.stout,lean.tall or anything in that matter.But u don't have to explain the way you are to anyone,as it is your body and all that matters is the fact that you are comfortable with it. After all who's got to do anything with the way you look?2.You don't owe anyone an explanation on the size of your appetite:"Oh my god!Is that how much you eat?I mean yes,no..whatever?So what?What you eat or in what quantity you eat is best left for you. Best thought this way-does what you eat fill anybody else's stomach?3.You don't owe people an explanation on the gender of your friends:Gossip talks-Look at her,almost all her friends are guys. I mean seriously!In which constitution is this written that you should have friends who are of your same gender.Does it really describe any part of your character/personality?Why explain anything which is completely related on your comfort zone?4.You don't owe anyone an explanation on marriage: Weather it is about marriage or staying single ,having children or staying child-less.Its completely ones choice. Marriage is not meant for everyone and this fact should be accepted no matter how hard it is to digest,because at the end of the day it is you who will suffer when your marriage fails or when you lack to have a healthy and sustainable relationship with your kids.5.You don't owe anyone an explanation on the kind of clothes you choose to wear:The kind of clothes you wear according to many boils down to ones character and the background that he/she belongs to.How does it even define us?Be it jeans or shorts,tops or tunics,it has nothing to do with your self worth...So why explain?Well these where just few instances where we are asked to explain ourselves.We all have talents and flaws which are unique to us,we have a life to live(let me specify)-OUR LIFE.Why waste time explaining ourselves to people?Its high time we stick by the rule #mylife_mychoice (which is definitely nobody's business).
Arya Sunil